Some people live for their bodies, others for dignity. I used to walk down the street one Saturday evening with a Pepsi can in her hand. An old woman in rags came unsteadily to me with a sack on her back.
Another poor woman lived by collecting old cans. The cans and cans came up to her, and she looked up at me and stared at me My chicken. I gave her some coins before I finished drinking coke.
She looked at me for a few seconds, puzzled and handed me the money, and I asked, "why don't you want this?" "I'm not a beggar," she said seriously, word by word. I'm sorry that I wanted to help her and treat her as a beggar rather than an ordinary person, so I hurt her. All I could do was drink the coke, pass her the empty can, and she gave it to me A smile, eyes with a little satiaction and gratitude.
This woman's material life is very poor, but as a man, she is very decent. I am not only moved, but also learned an unforgettable lesson: some people live for the body, while others are for dignity. I used to walk in the street on a Saturday evening with a Pepsi can in my hand.
An old woman in rags came unsteadily towards me with a sack on her back. Another poor woman came closer by collecting used cans and cans. She looked up at me and then looked at my chicken.
Before I finished drinking coke, I gave her some A coin. She looked at me for a few seconds and paid the money back. I was puzzled and asked, "why don't you want this?" "I'm not a beggar," she said solemnly.
Every word, I immediately felt sorry. I wanted to help her and treat her as a beggar, not an ordinary person. So I hurt her.
All I could do at that time was to finish drinking the coke and hand her the empty jar. She gave me a smile with some in her eyes Xu's satiaction and gratitude. This woman's material life is very poor, but as a respectable man, I not only moved, but also learned a good lesson.
Burglary was the main form of crime in the past. It increased at first, but kept decreasing. It became stable only when the number of cases decreased by 1 / 3 compared with the previous years.
In recent years, it fluctuated slightly and reached the amount of burglary. In the first year, car theft was listed as the middle of the three categories of crimes. Compared with the other two types of cases, in, the number of burglaries increased, Before the accident rate rises to the highest level, the lowest crime type in Newport is personal robbery.
The lowest level is at, and the highest point is (slightly lower than the incident returns to the initial level again).
There are two ways to change. The first is to change from the outside to the inside. This is to change the environment by external protection.
The most common thing is that a quiet person sells his work and changes himself by external force. The second is from the inside out. Everyone who has been involved in the field of psychotherapy will inevitably have his or her current behavior habits from the previous life events Experience events are formed by the constant adjustment and correction of the subconscious memory of the characters who have experienced in their early years.
Both methods of changing mentality and habits have their own strengths and external change methods. They do not need to learn professional knowledge. As long as they have perseverance, it is easy to change.